Tuesday, December 6, 2011

a weekend ful of ups and downs

did i get on a rollercoaster sometime friday and not know it?? because OH MY GOSH, this whole weekend has been super emotional.

the good news? my little sis has FINALLY wised up and dumped her doucheface of a boyfriend. i've had to fake polite with this kid for FOUR YEARS. gag.

the bad news? said douchface decided to go full-on juvenile doucheface and rant and rave on facebook after my sister maturely decided she didn't want the same things as he did, and decided to end it. she didn't cheat, she didn't DO anything but follow what her heart said. so gems like

"Well, i guess now all i gotta do is sell this stupid house and im completely done with this effin town.."


"Ill be so thankful when shes out of my house, and out of my life."


" Its all a big game and you win some you lose some and people come and go. This one, however is not going fast enough."


but at least she's free from him, and she's finally seen that she's better off without him. but the next few weeks with her living back at home with my parents might be a wee bit interesting.  plus you know...the hubs us REALLY enjoying making long-term plans to maim and/or murder the dude.

and then comes the tragedy that just breaks my heart. 

one of my very best friends lost her son today, at 23 weeks along. it makes me so mad, so sad, so sick.  it makes me question my belief that everything happens for a reason, because why do bad things happens to wonderful people?? this is just the latest in the long line of stuff that just doesn't make sense to me.

feeling helpless sucks, and i know there's nothing i can say or do to make anything better. so if you're the praying type, or the good thoughts type, or whatever...if you could say one for my friend, i'd really appreciate it.

i PROMISE i'll be back with more fun-type things tomorrow. but for me, will you hug your loved ones if they're near, or hold them a little closer in your heart if they aren't....Rest in peace sweet J.T.H. your "aunt" hayley will always love you. say hi to everyone up there...you'll be in good hands.


katherinebee said...

Ugh - I'm on my own rollercoaster right now - sending your sister and your friend prayers. That's so tough for both of them.

Laurie of Lulu and Daisy said...

The Douche is gone and that's the MOST important thing. Prayers to your friend and your family.

bananas. said...


i'm sorry to hear about your friend's son. that's terrible. life is so short and i hate it.

hang in there love.

at least douchebag is gone.

Claire Kiefer said...

So sorry about your friend losing her baby . . . 23 weeks is so far along, and I'm sure she's heartbroken. I'll be saying a prayer for her tonight!

And when you're dealing with actual serious tragedies, it makes people like your sister's ex-boyfriend seem all the more ridiculous. I hope he tames soon . . . OR that you actually do kick his ass!

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